What is it about you?

I thought I knew what I wanted in a mate...attractive, strongwilled, attentive, loving, caring, will call just because, available...yep all those things and then I met him.  He does all those things...and it irritates the mess out of me.

I was sitting there thinking...I used to get pissed off cause my last boyfriend didn't call enough and seemed to have a me complex but why does it irritate me when R does it?  What I mean is, R calls- ALOT...too much.  And wants to see me all the time..   I have come to the conclusion that R is not the one for me...  How did I come to that conclusion?  Well I would be perfectly happy with all this attention from someone else.  For example, if I were really into R the way I was into Ant and he was calling all the time etc., I prolly wouldn't mind...My eyes would not roll when his number showed up in the caller id.   I would be happy to spend as much time as possible with him.  R and I work down the street from each other.....I knew this before I let him know....but I don't even wanna go to lunch with him...I would rather work through lunch than spend time with him.  I am highly irritated with minor things from the way he talks to his choice of words to...well hell just errything....so I guess I should be careful what I ask for....what I thought I wanted, turns out to be more than I am willing to deal with.  I have been single for so long, that I like my space and time...I guess instead of asking  "What is it about you", I should ask....What is it about me?

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